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Forget Me Not The National AIDS memorial

The National AIDS Memorial grew out of the response of a small group of people to the devastation wrought by AIDS in the San Francisco gay community. They envisioned a place that could memorialize those who had died, increase public awareness of the crisis, and serve as a sanctified public space for remembering and reflecting. In 1989, through a unique public-private partnership with San Francisco’s Recreation and Park Department, a neglected and unused site was chosen in the heart of Golden Gate Park.

September 19, 1991 marked the first workday and is considered the birthday of what came to be known as the Grove. Over 200 people attended that day, including politicians and dignitaries. Three years later, with major endowment initiatives underway, a 99-year renewable lease was signed with the City of San Francisco. In 1996, under the stewardship of Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi (now House Minority Leader), the Grove became a national memorial.

Unlike most memorials, the animating vision of the founders was the concept of a living memorial, one that renews and rebuilds as well as remembers. The acts of organizing, gardening, and just being in the Grove were part of the healing process, creating a living testimony to renewal.

The original designers of the Memorial wanted the journey through the Grove to be a metaphor for the struggle with AIDS by both victims and survivors. The journey begins with the descent from the mundane activity of the street into a secluded and shadowed area, and then moves through isolation and darkness to eventual re-emergence into light. The space was envisioned as a sacred and silent space set apart from the city. With portals to define entrances, the elongated form of a bowl, and the inclusion of spaces for gathering and solitude, the memorial becomes a kind of cathedral. Hardscape design elements, like the Circle of Friends (with engraved names of those “touched by AIDS”) incorporate broken round forms – “circles that get broken when people die.”

Originally conceived as a way to involve the community in the Grove and take advantage of much needed labor, workdays have become a cornerstone of the National AIDS Memorial. Partners, families and friends of those lost to AIDS make up the memorial’s corps of volunteers. Since 1991 thousands of volunteers have given more than 50,000 hours of their time at regularly scheduled workdays. Over the years, the Grove has become more fully built and filled in, just as treatment for HIV has improved. As the crisis nature of the epidemic has changed, so have the workdays. Urgency has given way to care and reverence. To this day, volunteer labor, along with a full-time gardener, keeps the grove planted and maintained.

Through the years the National AIDS Memorial has become an almost secret, sanctified place for private healing rituals and profound moments of reflection and connection. Despite this rich story and fertile ground, the National AIDS Memorial remains relatively unknown. FORGET ME NOT will change this, bringing the Memorial and the idea of memorial into the light.

 


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